7 Tinder Tips (Or: The 7 habits of highly effective Tindering)
Tinder Tip 1: BE PROACTIVE
To get the best out of Tinder you have be on the prowl. One of our top tinder tips is to chase your own tinders. This is especially good advice for ladies who often fall back into passive roles within the tindering environment. Girls, don’t sit there waiting to be objectified -> get searching for the boys you find hot!
Tinder tip 2: BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND:
Tindering is at its worst a superficial activity and its plagued by an excess of choice. Too much choice is the very essence of anxiety, so our top tip with Tinder is to know what you want and have a strategy for achieving it. Without this you will be lost in a confusing haze of too many cute pictures. Define your goal, whether it be a fun time that night, or a long term relationship, and work towards it.
Tinder tip 3: PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST:
There are a lot of very sexy pictures on Tinder and it’s hard not to let the imagination run away with itself. However, you must be disciplined! If you want real and meaningful relationships you need to take your time and put the effort into a real conversation before you ask for the nudey pics!
Tinder tip 4: THINK WIN-WIN:
Tinder is built on an win win principle. You can only talk to each other if you both ‘like’ each others pictures. That’s a good start and once you commence messaging, don’t forget to continue in this vein. Find a suitable question to ask your tinder friend, early on in the process, that establishes clearly for both of you that you are after the same thing. If they don't answer correctly end the conversation there - ne exceptions!
Tinder tip 5: SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD:
In tindering terms this tip translates in the following manner: If you’re going to swap naughty photos, make sure they send you theirs first!
Tinder tip 6: SYNERGIZE:
One of the best topics you can discuss when you’re on a Tinder date is, Tindering. What are your top tinder tips and what are your date's top tips. It’s a subject you already know you have in common and something you probably both wish to do better. If you get nothing else out of the date, you might get some fresh ideas and a fresh perspective on Tindering
Tinder tip 7: SHARPEN THE SAW:
Remember that online dating – especially Tindering – is a numbers game. It is to be approached unemotionally and strategically in the first instance. You must have a strategy and you must seek to always be improving your technique. This includes, what pictures produce the best dates (test!), what type of messages get the best results, what venues make the best dates. Always be testing – is a motto you can be sure Tinder developers adhere to, and Tinder customer should adhere to it too.