Local swingers

Local swingers and motivations

There are lots of reasons that people get into local swinging and you might be surprised to learn that not all of them start with sexual desire. In fact what many local swingers are looking for is primarily renewed excitement in their lives and this does not necessarily begin and end in the bedroom, though of course this plays a part. Often couples are looking for the romantic ‘add ons’ as well: dates and fun with a new partner, even if it’s just for one night.

Rules of the game for local swingers

For couples who are braves enough and honest enough with each other to delve into the sometimes murky world of local swinger parties or swinger hook ups, transparency and boundaries are very important. Total loyalty seems like an obvious pre-requisite, especially so if the adventure was instigated more at the insistence of one party than the other. Clearly time limits are important in this and if couples want to swing out for a night or two, they must be confident that at the end of the party, they will be coming back home.

How to do local swinging

Swinging is a broad church and there are no hard and fast methodologies. However, it doesn’t have to be all car keys and bedroom numbers. Swinging can be about days out too! One romantic day out with a friend of your partner and then its all over. Maybe a day’s paragliding off a big mountain.